On the other hand, frugality and simplicity have been raised to an almost religious level among the more extreme followers of this lifestyle. This kind of person typically recycles, reuses, and spends quite a bit of time thinking about how not to deplete valuable resources on a global level, and how to spend as little as possible on what is needed to live on a personal level. And then there are the really thrifty people who just love to save money for other expenditures and don’t really care too much about the environment and dwindling resources. So assuming that you are a person who lands somewhere in the coupon-using category, what about using a coupon on the first date?
Someone once said that if honesty is the best policy, then dishonesty must be second-best. There is a place for complete honesty in a relationship, but whether or not it’s on the first date is questionable. Let’s assume that you know the person you are dating just well enough to realize that you don’t want to ruin things right off the bat. But you also don’t know enough about him or her to accurately guess which side of the coupon issue he or she might be on. You may feel that any person who would not use a coupon or would look down on someone who does is not someone you could be serious about anyway. In that case you may decide to whip out the coupon as a test, to determine which side of the coupon fence your date is on.
If there are other circumstances involved – for example, you are falling in love very fast and you don’t want to blow it on the first date – you may want to postpone using a coupon for a later time (hopefully before the expiration date), thinking that you will learn more about your new love in time, and you can be completely open and honest. Or you can be really tricky and use your coupon to pay the bill in a way that your date doesn’t know or observe.